2013年12月12日星期四
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Steamy family secret Does anyone have one?The f*#cking cousin thread got me
thinking. Here's mine.For my entire senior year, i had a very hot, sexy, steamy,
purely sexual realtionship with this guy.We ran in different crowds and felt
mutual that we were not"Relationship"Material, so it was all in secret-Which
made it hotter.We were rabbits. Fast forward 8 years, and i moved back to my
home state and went to a family gathering to find-Much to my surpirse-That the
guy that my cousin married was him!Even though i have a close North Face Canada Outlet family, this
cousin and i are a few years apart and have never been that close.I never
connected the dot/paid attention that her new last name could have belonged to
this guy!I know we were both very equally surprised to see each other.Seriously,
the blood drained from his face when he saw me! We both are now happily married
with kids-And would never feel that those steamy feelings would surface and
cause a problem, but i have never felt like i needed to tell my husband(Because
we don't hang out with them), certain he has not told his wife(My http://www.science2013.com/ cousin),
but I tell you, it makes for some super awkward conversations at the 2x/yr
family gatherings because I am pretty certain what is on each of our minds. The
korean side of my family has all sorts of secrets, and to this day, i do not
know all the details. My grandmother and great aunt fled north korea as a teen
and risked their lives doing so, and as much as i think it might be a really
inspiring and heart breaking story, nobody talks about it and refuses to.It's
like it's shameful or something.I don't get it.Also, they have a hard time
acknowledging it because it obviously means my grandmother and great aunt
were"Poor" (Though they both ended up marrying wealthy and/or prominent
men).They really don't like having to mention that anyone from the family line
was ever poor(I apparently come from an"Important"Family lol.Not that it did me
any good, as my mother was disowned for getting knocked up by a gi, so i did not
grow up in the upper tier of korean society, instead i was a poor, hungry little
girl in america, where my last name didn't mean shit to anyone) One of my uncles
died, and i don't know any of the details, at all, except the tid bits i've
overhead from my mom.My uncle married a very pretty woman, and apparently she
borrowed lots of money, and she's blamed for my uncle's untimely death.It sounds
really scandalous, but no one will talk about it at all!I mean, was he killed by
the mafia?Why won't anyone tell me? My youngest brother is a product of rape,
and the big family secret is that he doesn't know.Obviously my other brother,
sister, and i know(Since we're all much much older than him)And my mother told
us to never tell him about his origin.He obviously knows he has a different
father(Due to ethnicity), but he thinks his father became ill and died.I am not
sure what to think about this whole thing, or if it is ever my place to tell my
youngest brother.I think if he ever asked me point blank, i would tell him.But
then i'd wonder if all i was doing was damaging him, since it makes no
difference to any of us how he was conceived, and i don't want him to think less
of himself.My grandpa knew she'd leave him if she knew he cheated on her.The
kicker?My grandma's mom was visiting and apparently grandpa broke down and told
her about the situation, turns out she was the one who advised him to call the
doc and get him to lie to her.
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